"If I can't lead myself, others won't follow me. If I can't lead myself, others won't respect me. If I can't lead myself, others won't partner with me." The 360 Degree Leader
Your discipline and courage determine your growth. Your growth will make you who you are.
You attract who you are, so your growth determines what you continually attract in your life.
What you attract into your life determines the level of success you can have.
Take an inventory of what you are drawing into your life. Is it the right people? The right situations? The right partnerships? Are these things adding up to what you want to accomplish?
If so, great. If not, the next thing you need to do is take step one I mentioned above, find the discipline and courage to grow every day and get better.
This stuff doesn't happen overnight. There's no lottery winner in the grind of getting better at who you are and what you do. Growth never stops. Life never stands still. You're either moving forward or falling back.